Gordon Birnie

• Sexuality and sexual dysfunction
• Relationship communication
• Anxiety and depression

About Gordon

Gordon Birnie works on sexual and relationship concerns and on general mental health problems, using a down-to-earth and non-judgemental approach. He is registered with NCPS and has three years' professional experience in the field.

He helps people with sexual problems and difficulties in intimate relationships, including issues linked to LGBTQ+ identities and gender. He also supports people managing anxiety, depression and the practical pressures of life change. He uses straightforward, conversational counselling rather than technical jargon.

Gordon draws on Client-Centred Therapy to focus on what a person brings to sessions and to help them feel heard. He also uses Imago Relationship Therapy ideas when talking about communication and patterns that affect closeness. Solution-Focused Therapy is used to set practical goals and to find realistic steps forward.

Sessions are conducted in English in the United Kingdom. The profile notes three years of professional practice and NCPS as the credential; these details explain his background rather than promising particular outcomes.

People often come for help with intimacy-related problems, sexual dysfunction, shame or guilt about sexual feelings, or handling non-monogamous and kink-related concerns. Others book for help with work stress, career decisions, or coping after trauma and abuse. Gordon aims to make sessions simple, direct and geared to the issues the person brings.

If someone wants to start, they follow the site booking flow to be matched and then schedule a first session.

How his therapy approaches are used in online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting what a person says, helping them to describe their needs and feelings more clearly; it is useful for addressing intimacy, sexuality and relationship concerns. Imago Relationship Therapy concentrates on communication patterns and how partners relate; its ideas can help with recurring conflicts and rebuilding connection. Solution-Focused Therapy looks for practical next steps and small changes that can be tried between sessions to make everyday life easier.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Gordon will discuss these methods with the person and agree which to use, based on their goals and preferences. The decision is collaborative and can change as needs evolve.

The practical benefits of online counselling include fitting sessions more easily into a busy week and reducing travel time. Some people prefer shorter check-ins by phone when they need a quick review, while others choose longer video conversations for in-depth discussion; please confirm the session formats offered before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to maintain regular contact and to build steady progress alongside daily life.

Topics Gordon lists

• Stress and anxiety
• LGBT
• Relationship issues
• Intimacy-related issues
• Depression
• Trauma and abuse
• Self-esteem
• Career difficulties
• Coping with life changes
• Attachment issues
• BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
• Communication problems
• Guilt and shame
• Life purpose
• Men's issues
• Multicultural concerns
• Polyamory and non-monogamous relationships
• Process addictions
• Sex addiction
• Sexual dysfunction
• Sexuality

Ways of working

• Client-Centred Therapy
• Imago Relationship Therapy
• Solution-Focused Therapy

Questions about Gordon

Does he work with anxiety?

Yes. He supports people experiencing anxiety and offers practical ways to manage symptoms and day-to-day pressures.

What kind of counselling does he offer?

He practises Client-Centred Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy, applied in clear, conversational sessions.

How much experience does he have?

He has three years of professional experience working with sexual and relationship issues and related mental health concerns.

Where is he based?

He is based in the United Kingdom and practises there.

What languages are sessions in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with him from overseas?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are offered to people in the United Kingdom.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Use the Talk to a counsellor online button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.